abrasively vs urbanely

abrasively

adv
  • Hardly; roughly; in a rough manner. 

  • In an abrasive manner; in a rude and unkind manner; acting in a way that may hurt other people's feelings. 

urbanely

adv
  • In an urbane manner. 

How often have the words abrasively and urbanely occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )