sexuality vs urge to merge

sexuality

noun
  • Sexual orientation. 

  • Sexual identity, gender. 

  • The quality of being sexual; that which is characterized or distinguished by sex. 

  • Sexual activity; concern with, or interest in, sexual activity. 

  • Sexual potency. 

urge to merge

noun
  • A strong desire to form intense emotional connections, stereotypically associated with lesbians. 

How often have the words sexuality and urge to merge occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )