gracious vs you know

gracious

intj
  • Expression of surprise, contempt, outrage, disgust, boredom, or frustration. 

adj
  • benignant 

  • indulgent, charming and graceful 

  • compassionate 

  • elegant and with good taste 

  • kind and warmly courteous 

  • full of grace 

  • magnanimous, without arrogance or complaint, benevolently declining to raise controversy or insist on possible prerogatives. 

  • tactful 

you know

intj
  • Expression used to imply meaning, rather than say it, such as when a person is embarrassed. 

  • Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see you, know. 

  • Expression signifying a pause or hesitation. 

  • Used as a rhetorical question to confirm agreement, knowing or understanding at the end of a statement. 

  • Used to introduce information. 

How often have the words gracious and you know occurred in a corpus of books? (source: Google Ngram Viewer )